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How to Spot Mental Health Issues in Children: A Guide for Parents

How to Spot Mental Health Issues in Children: A Guide for Parents

No parent wants to witness their child suffering—for any reason. But mental illness can be exponentially more difficult to watch, because you can’t see or comprehend the source, as you could with a fever, for instance.

Plus, it’s tough to tell if your little one is on the mend or still suffering in silence.

Mental disorders among teens and young adults have been rising steadily for the past decade. The reasons could be environmental (i.e., family, school, and social media), situational (i.e., a traumatic event), physical (i.e., hormones and genetics), or a combination of these. While science tries to pinpoint the causes, consider these sobering statistics:

  • 13% of children ages 8 and up will experience a severe mental disorder before they’re old enough to drive, according to NIMH.
  • In 2017, according to a study from the Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 13% of people between ages 12 and 25 had symptoms akin to major depression (they may not have been diagnosed) within the previous year—a 57% increase from 2008.

Now some good news: Early detection and intervention can save years of hassle and heartbreak. So it’s important that parents know how to recognize the often-stealthy signs of mental illness.

Where to begin? Right here.

 

How to Determine If Your Child Needs Mental Health Help

One of the biggest challenges for parents: Recognizing the difference between a psychological issue and the normal developmental changes that happen during these formative years, says Mark A. Stein, Ph.D., professor of psychiatry and pediatrics at the University of Washington and director of the Pearl Clinic/ADHD and Related Disorders Program at Seattle Children’s Hospital.

Parents often either over-interpret a supposed sign and conclude there’s a problem, or dismiss a change in behavior as “a bad week.”

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To be a good mental-health first responder for your child, Dr. Stein suggests looking at his or her behavior in three areas: home, school, and social groups. Consider the following to help you determine whether you should seek help:

  • Family functioning. It’s normal for family members to squabble and for kids to push back against parental rules. But if your child is suddenly getting into frequent or escalating conflicts with family members that don’t get resolved, that’s a warning sign of a potential problem.
  • Academic functioning. School is a major portion of any child’s life, so significant changes in grades or attitude about school or schoolwork that are out of the ordinary should raise a red flag. Teacher input is often a helpful first step.
  • Social functioning. Is your child struggling to get along with friends and classmates? Has she withdrawn from or become reluctant to participate social activities? If yes, those are all warning signs.

If your child is having issues in any of these areas, seek help. This is especially true if their behavior doesn’t “match” their development level. For example, it’s normal for a 3-year-old to have frequent tantrums, but not an 11-year-old.

 

Common Symptoms of Mental Illness in Children

Psychological and psychiatric problems can largely be divided into two areas, says Dr. Stein: externalizing or internalizing.

As you might guess, externalized behavior problems are easier to spot, because signs include things you can see: behavioral changes, fighting, hyperactivity, destructive behavior. Internalized problems are often emotional (such as depression) and thus much more difficult to spot.

 

Here are six symptoms to watch for:

  • Mood changes. All children (and adults) are prone to mood swings. But pay attention if your child’s mood dips to the point where she seems very sad for a week or does not look forward to things she used to enjoy.
  • Intense feelings of anxiety. Be alert for a child who’s overly anxious, especially if it leads to physical symptoms like a racing heart. While a little bit of anxiety is normal and can be a good thing—if it motivates your child to study or practice, for instance—“too much impairs performance, and children really suffer,” says Dr. Stein. Two easily overlooked physical signs: unexplained headaches or stomachaches.
  • Difficulty concentrating. A teacher might report that your child is having unusual trouble sitting still or paying attention, or you may notice this problem at home.
  • Changes in eating or sleeping habits. If your child is suddenly suffering from insomnia—or, conversely, tries to sleep all day—it could be a sign of depression. Same goes for a loss of appetite.
  • Quick weight loss. A noticeable lack of appetite or quick weight loss could point to an eating disorder, particularly in teens.
  • Experimentation with illicit substances. Many teens try cigarettes, alcohol, and drugs. If this behavior coincides with declining grades or a change in peer group, says Dr. Stein, it’s cause for alarm.

 

When to Worry About Suicide

“There’s been a marked increase in suicide attempts and suicides among children and youth,” says Dr. Stein.

In fact, the suicide rate among kids younger than 15 nearly doubled between 2016 and 2017 to 1.34 per 100,000 people, according to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.

Suicide is now the second-leading cause of death for Americans between the ages of 10 and 24, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

The biggest red flag for parents: changes in mood or behavior, such as becoming increasingly isolated and withdrawn, or expressing feelings of hopelessness. Kids’ behavior changes like the weather, but watch for drastic shifts—like a calm kid suddenly getting into fights or being unusually disruptive at school. If the behavior includes the use of or a preoccupation with weapons, or any threat of harm to themselves or others, call your doctor right away. Likewise, if you are concerned that your child may harm themselves, call 911 or go to the emergency room immediately, says Dr. Stein.

“Be even more aware if you know your child is prone to impulsivity,” Dr. Stein says. In addition, watch carefully if there have been publicized cases of suicide near you, as it’s not uncommon for young people contemplating self-harm to be pushed closer when they hear of other cases.

 

What to Do If You Suspect a Mental Health Problem

If you believe your child is struggling with anxiety, depression, or another psychological issue, make an appointment with your pediatrician or family doctor first, says Dr. Stein.

“This is someone who knows your child, has a sense of them over time, and also knows your family,” he says.

Your doctor will help you decide if you should seek an evaluation from a mental health professional, such as a psychologist, psychiatrist, or neurodevelopment expert.

“A diagnostic evaluation is important [for] understanding how to treat any psychiatric disorder,” says Dr. Stein. “The first step in treatment is a diagnostic evaluation, which should identify appropriate, personalized targets for treatment and an evaluation strategy. We’re constantly striving to develop more precise ways of diagnosing individuals to really guide our treatment.”

 

Find the right treatment for you and your loved one.

Dealing with a child who may have a mental illness is challenging, to be sure, but there are good options for both therapy and medication.

And remember: Seeking help sooner rather than later is more likely to lead to a successful outcome for your child and your family.

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3 Comments

  1. Liz 7 days ago

    I have 3 kids all whom have been diagnosed at one point or another with a mental “mood” disorder. also, have an ex – their father- who doesnt think anything is wrong… even after repeated hospital inpatient and outpatient stays. suicidal thoughts, are nothing to brush under the rug, whether you think it is real or not- never take a chance. I have friends who have lost their kids from suicide… I will do everything, including alienating friends and family who dont “see” what I see in my kids… therapists are hard to find – when you need them ” now” .. you get “not taking new patients- or next available appt is 3 months”… and your kid may not open up to them when you do find one, but keep trying! because the results of weekly sessions and having your kid -finally connect to one- is priceless (not really, with co pays every session of 45$!!) – early treatment is the way to go… have a 24 yr old, 21 yr old and a 13 yr old.. oldest kids, were immediately just given prescriptions- my youngest.. refused to take meds, is the one who sees therapist weekly- and has a better outlook and more improvement in 1 yr .. than the other two put together. Keep the faith!

  2. Belinda Goodwin 1 week ago

    We tried to through my grandsons primary care physician to get him help at an early age, and she was very much against listening to anything his mother, or I his grandmother had to say. Her answers for everything was to be more consistent. Now mind you, she had not been to the home to see the behavior, and things we were talking about. And I as the Grandmother had dealt with his mother being diagnosed with Bipolar disorder 1, severe anxiety, PTSD, and borderline personality disorder at a very early age. So all we were asking for is a referral to a counselor for him, that’s all nothing else, no throwing out labels or possible diagnosis, just wanted him to see a therapist and/or counselor. But she refused saying no need for a 3yr old to see anyone. So things got pretty dark over the next year, until my daughter asked her therapist about getting him some help and she did. It has been great, and glad she did it when she did because now all you have to have a referral from your primary care know matter what. I don’t think a lot of pediatricians take it seriously when a 3-7yr old has a problem and needs to see a therapist or counselor. Or when that child is talking about killing themselves and is very detailed about it at that young age and shouldn’t be because no one in the home talks about it or is graphic and they don’t watch it. So I’m thankful that my daughter took the matter into her own hands and above to the right people, and 3 and a half yrs later, we are a still with our support team, and going strong making a happy, healthy well balanced child. So for anyone else out there going through the same situation keep pushing, don’t stop, your all that child has. Use your school, change doctors, go to a mental health clinic on your own, go to the E.R if you have to. Someone some where will help you get what you need to help your child, grandchild, niece, nephew, ect.. God Bless you and goodluck..

    • Genomind 1 week ago

      Hi Belinda, thanks for sharing your story.  We’re glad to hear you have found mental health solutions that were right for your family.

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